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Seduction, love and submission: Episode 1 (Series)

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  Seduction, love and submission: Episode 1 (Series) It was the summer of 2010, three years since I had left the campus of my business school with this diploma, the sesame of our modern world. Ambitious and well trained, I had, at the price of countless interviews and an almost vindictive tenacity, joined the ranks of M. a prestigious firm specialized in strategic analysis. Those first years had been frightening, with their procession of sleepless nights, shortened weekends to analyze and deconstruct industries I knew nothing about, but one learned quickly. The picture of my personal life was the negative reflection of my professional life, empty! Although the era was not yet one of triumphant minorities, differences were accepted, especially in my American firm, where, in the absence of otherness, personality was respected. Why do I say this? I say this because I, Marianne, have always loved women, ever since I felt the desire. My family and friends knew it, I had little qualms ab...
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Why do we get all fired up at the beginning of a relationship?

 Why do we get all fired up at the beginning of a relationship?

A new partner, a sensuality that is still mysterious, an energy that soars... How do you explain this surge of libido when you are just in a relationship? Can this intensity last?


According to Sébastien Landry, psycho-sexologist in Le Mans, the important thing at this level is to "stay on the notion of pleasure, to listen to each other, not to be led by performance."


At the beginning of the relationship, make room for the encounter, the novelty, the total letting go towards the unknown. The couple is free of any conflict or shadowy area, the mental load is often light: the positive can reign under the comforter. Sexual relations are then most often gratifying. "Our organism will ask us to have others to relive the satisfaction they generate", explains Myriam Belmar, endocrinologist of the Vithas Nisa Pardo de Aravaca Hospital (Madrid, Spain). Hence the tendency to multiply the breaks and other naughty meetings at any time.


What happens in the brain? "Sexual desire involves the brain regions that support mechanisms (...) of emotion, reward, satisfaction, attention, identification with the other, (...) and also mental representation of the self," describes the Swiss Medical Journal.


The result is a highly stimulated reward system and a hormonal cascade that encourages you to take action!


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